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1. What kind of present would you
buy for your partner?
a. something popular
b. something you like
c. something your partner wants
d. something handmade
2. What kind of chair do you prefer?
a. fabric
b. leather
c. wood
d. reclining chair
Analysis
1. Present
By stating what kind of gift you
would give, you are actually revealing how you relate to your
partner. However, it doesn't really matter so much what you
give - if you care enough to give something, your partner will
get the message
a. You tend to become lost in clouds of confusion when relating
to your partner.
b. You assume that the world revolves around yourself.
c. You tend to think about your partner's feelings a lot.
d. You have a tendency to overdo things, but you place a high
value on your relationship.
2. Chair
If you choose to sit on certain
chair, you are not suspicious or distrustful of it. This is
similar to our relationships with the people we like. The qualities
we look for in a chair are similar to the qualities that we
look for in a partner.
You want your partner to:
a. Spend more time and be more
comforting with you.
b. Try to understand you better.
c. Be more open and honest with you.
d. Give you more attention.
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